Eli: Hey, I have a question for you.
Kurt: I know this is either going to be really disconcerting or extremely infuriating, but ok.
Eli: This is actually kind of a serious topic. Something happened today and I'm a little uneasy. Actually, freaked out about it.
Kurt: Really? What's going on? Are you ok?
Eli: At what point does a person's actions become actual, true, "stalking." Like, when could someone call the police about this?
Kurt: Um, Eli? Are we in danger? Should I be worried?
Eli: No. I don't think so. But people are so unpredictable and sometimes it's just really hard to know what they're going to do. It's probably fine. But I don't want to end up in the middle of trouble that I could have avoided.
Kurt: Ok. Give me the scenario.
Eli: So let's say that a person follows another person home just to find out where that person lives.
Kurt: That's creepy. But I don't know that the police would do anything about that. Is that all?
Eli: No. So then the "potential stalker" repeatedly returns to that house and walks by it dozens of times, hoping that the person inside will happen to come out.
Kurt: That's definitely worse. And--
Eli: And the potential stalker also finds out where the victim works and frequently goes there as well and takes pictures of the person to text to other people.
Kurt: Are you saying you have paparazzi?
Eli: Don't be ridiculous.
Kurt: Well I definitely think you need to be careful. That sounds a little dangerous. Also--
Eli: And what if from time to time the potential stalker gets up really close to the house and looks through the windows?
Kurt: Definitely not ok.
Eli: But it's only with the windows that are open.
Kurt: That really doesn't matter. It's not ok to look through someone's windows.
Eli: Ugh. FINE. I'll stop. It's not worth all of this moral ambiguity.
Kurt: Huh? You'll stop? Wait a minute. Are YOU the stalker in this situation?!
Eli: POTENTIAL stalker. Yes.
Kurt: Then why did you premise this conversation with statements that made you sound like the victim?! Why did you say you're freaked out?!
Eli: Because I don't want to get in trouble, obviously. I just want to stalk people in peace.
Kurt: WHY ARE YOU EVEN STALKING PEOPLE!?
Eli: Well it's actually a funny story. So, Jolyn and I--
Kurt: Stop. I don't need to hear another word. You are not allowed to see Jolyn anymore unless I'm there.
Eli: You can't GROUND me from Jolyn!
Kurt: Eli, if I don't stop you and Jolyn from spending time together, eventually the police are going to stop both of you from spending time with anyone.
Eli: Ok. But I'm not going to be the one to tell her.
Kurt: Oh my gosh.
Eli: What?
Kurt: I just realized that all of the conversations you post on Stranger are probably actually real conversations.
Eli: Meow.
~It Just Gets Stranger
A Serious Conversation about Stalking
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